If you're curious as to what you are supposed to say...well, this tee is for you. What was once considered common courtesies, have definitely become very uncommon.
Thank You
You're Welcome
Excuse Me
Please...
Are just a few examples. For some reason it seems adults have allocated these statements to children only. However, you never grow out of the need of being polite. I can't stand walking through a crowded street or store, getting bumped back and forth by drones of zombiefied people who think if they don't make eye contact then it's ok to just keep going. It's not ok. Say "Excuse Me," for goodness sake. No one gave you the right to just bust through a crowd unabashed.
If someone does something for you, the first words out of your mouth should be, "Thank You." Not -- this isn't right, or I wanted (xx) instead. Be thankful for what you have or what you're getting, or next time you might just not get anything at all.
"You're Welcome," is a good thing to say when thanked, but it's also an excellent way to get a thank you. If you do something for someone and they don't say thank you...simply remind them that they are welcome for taking up your time. Hopefully they will realize their rude mistake and correct it.
Other uncommon courtesies that we might also want to bring back into play:
Turning Signals -- these are actually now installed in all automobiles. They allow people to know in what direction you would like to go. These are especially helpful when turning off a main road onto a side road. But, they can be used at any time you are changing direction.
Using the Walk Sign -- when crossing a road or major intersection, there are actually blocked off walkways that you can use. In order to make these walkways as user friendly as possible, there are signs that will alert you to when it is safe to cross the road. Amazing pieces of machinery these are. Some even use pictures!
Hand Washing -- this is a whole tree falling in the woods kind of philosophy. You probably won't get caught. If you choose to bypass the sink after using the bathroom, it's doubtful that co-workers or family members will know. However, this is still a good habit to have. If it helps to make this courtesy easier, imagine eating your own feces...now imagine eating someone elses. Now, no one wants that.
When you have been able to conquer these challenges, try to move on to bigger ones, like:
Driving in the appropriate lane on the highway
Putting down the toilet seat
Cleaning up after yourself
Not leaving dishes in the sink
Be careful not to take too much on at once, you may become overwhelmed and then revert back to your old behaviors. Just take one day at a time. You can do it. Now take a breath...and go.
1 comment:
This is the best one yet, Meredith!! I'm right there with you, and appreciate you voicing this! Interesting, though, in Poland people don't say excuse me...ever!! It's not that they're rude, it's just not done. It drove me crazy, and drives me crazy when I go to St. Louis to see my parents b/c people are much ruder there than here. Thanks for the post, you're great:)
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